Select prompt if value is not a valid option

[czosel]

Moved over from DavyJonesLocker/ember-one-way-controls#163, original message was

Currently, a one-way-selects's prompt is only selected when the current value is empty. When value is not empty but also not a valid option, the browser initially renders the first passed option instead of the prompt, because none of the options have a selected attribute and the prompt itself has the disabled attribute.

All that wouldn't be much of an issue if one doesn't pass invalid options, right? Well, it turns out that if value is an ember data relation, nothingSelected evaluates to false because it sees a promise. When the promise resolves to null, the first option stays selected because nothingSelected is still false (see #127 and probably also #159).

Instead of using empty to determine nothingSelected, I'd propose checking if the passed value is actually a valid option. That doesn't only solve the first issue when an actually invalid option is passed, but also the second issue related to ember-data relations.

[czosel]

This PR is very old, but I think it's still correct and even still conflict-free. Is there anything I can do to help landing it?