Update and sandardize implementation of packages, in sync with spack update

[adrienbernede]

Summary

This PR :

• migrates CARE and Caliper to CachedCMakePackage, reducing the gap with implementations found in llnl/radiuss-spack-configs.
• improves coherency in version constraints across RADIUSS packages.
• updates Spack.

⚠️ TODO Before Merge:

• Wait for merge of Update and standardize implementation of RADIUSS packages spack/spack#45648,
• then wait for subsequent develop snapshot (Sunday).
• Update Spack to new snapshot version in .uberenv-config.json.
• Confirm CI is passing.

[adrienbernede]

@rhornung67 provided that the test pass after updating with develop (likely) this is ready to go.

[rhornung67]

@adrienbernede we appear to be bumping up against a disk space limit on azure, which is causing build failures. I pushed a change to move one check from azure to GH actions.

It seems to be passing now, but poodle is plugged up with running jobs.