Apollo Server 4 Update

[nellh]

This brings OpenNeuro's API server up to date with the latest release of Apollo server. Apollo server 2 and 3 are approaching end of life.

• Updates to TypeScript 5.1.6 (required for Apollo 4)
• Node 18.17.0 and TypeScript 5.1.6
• Disables GraphQL subscriptions as these are no longer natively supported and not used by much of the post redesign OpenNeuro site.

Has a few known issues before ready to merge:

• Comments throw an error on deletion
• Creating the first snapshot redirects properly but page must be reloaded before the dataset can be published due to the missing subscription update

As there's only a few issues to fix, this should be ready once the subscriptions are fixed.