Generate thrift definitions using macro from compact-thrift-rs

[jhorstmann]

Which issue does this PR close?

An alternative implementation of a custom thrift decoder, this time based on rust declarative macros instead of a separate code generator.

Fixes #5854, Alternative to #5869

Rationale for this change

The current thrift definitions are not easy to customize and also leave some performance on the table. The macro-based approach here allows renaming fields and replacing types with custom implementations, while still being relatively easy to update.

The downsides of the macro is that error messages in case of typos are not that easy to deciper. Once there are more customizations, updates would need to be done via diff with the official definitions.

Even without customizations like borrowing data, the performance improvement is significant. On my machine, with native target and still the default allocator:

open(default)           time:   [9.9190 µs 9.9540 µs 9.9881 µs]
                        change: [-33.053% -32.672% -32.380%] (p = 0.00 < 0.05)
                        Performance has improved.

open(page index)        time:   [437.81 µs 439.01 µs 440.28 µs]
                        change: [-26.632% -26.481% -26.313%] (p = 0.00 < 0.05)
                        Performance has improved.

What changes are included in this PR?

Replaces the thrift structures and custom protocol with a macro that wraps the nearly unmodified parquet.thrift definitions.

Are there any user-facing changes?

This should mostly be a drop-in replacement, customizations and optimizations could be done in future PRs, for example borrowing data or replacing a Vec<Encoding> with a small bitset.

One api change is that structs and enum no longer derive the Eq trait, only PartialEq.

[tustvold]

Just clearing up some old PRs, feel free to reopen if you plan on continuing with this