Restore support for running fn EntityCommands on entities that mi…

…ght be despawned (#11107)

# Objective

In #9604 we removed the ability to define an `EntityCommand` as
`fn(Entity, &mut World)`. However I have since realized that `fn(Entity,
&mut World)` is an incredibly expressive and powerful way to define a
command for an entity that may or may not exist (`fn(EntityWorldMut)`
only works on entities that are alive).

## Solution

Support `EntityCommand`s in the style of `fn(Entity, &mut World)`, as
well as `fn(EntityWorldMut)`. Use a marker generic on the
`EntityCommand` trait to allow multiple impls.

The second commit in this PR replaces all of the internal command
definitions with ones using `fn` definitions. This is mostly just to
show off how expressive this style of command is -- we can revert this
commit if we'd rather avoid breaking changes.

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## Changelog

Re-added support for expressively defining an `EntityCommand` as a
function that takes `Entity, &mut World`.

## Migration Guide

All `Command` types in `bevy_ecs`, such as `Spawn`, `SpawnBatch`,
`Insert`, etc., have been made private. Use the equivalent methods on
`Commands` or `EntityCommands` instead.