feat: Implement query cancellation #1400

Job	Run time
Smoke test: stock R	23m 35s
Check matrix	6s
Without adbcdrivermanager	37m 0s
rcc: ${{ matrix.os }} (${{ matrix.r }}) ${{ matrix.desc }}	0s
Without arrow	35m 33s
Without bit64	37m 31s
Without clock	36m 46s
Without DBItest	36m 19s
Without dbplyr	36m 27s
Without dplyr	36m 51s
	4h 40m 8s

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