[7.17](backport #36904) Update go grpc version to 1.58.3 (#37070)

* Update go grpc version to 1.58.3 (#36904)

(cherry picked from commit 09823f3)

# Conflicts:
#	NOTICE.txt
#	go.mod
#	go.sum

* Resolve conflicts.

* Add CC0-1.0 License to notice rules.

Manual backport of this change from
#35183

* Update notice.

* Update gRPC to the expected 1.58.3 version

* Upgrade osquery-go to fix broken build.

Manual backport of the same upgrade in
#35183 to ensure we are compatible
with the updated thrift dependency.

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Co-authored-by: Michal Pristas <michal.pristas@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Craig MacKenzie <craig.mackenzie@elastic.co>