Updated contribution guidelines

Contributing.md

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 Welcome, and thank you for your interest in contributing to Reticulum!
 
-Apart from writing code, there are many ways in which you can contribute. Before getting started, please read these guidelines.
+Apart from writing code, there are many ways in which you can contribute. Before interacting with this community, read these short and simple guidelines.
+
+## Expected Conduct
+
+First and foremost, there is one simple requirement for taking part in this community: While we primarily interact virtually, your actions matter and have real consequences. Therefore: **Act like a responsible, civilized person** - also in the face of disputes and heated disagreements. Speak your mind here, discussions are welcome. Just do so in the spirit of being face-to-face with everyone else. Thank you.
 
 ## Asking Questions
 
-If you want to ask a question, do not open an issue.
+If you want to ask a question, **do not open an issue**. The issue tracker is used by people *working on Reticulum* to track bugs, issues and improvements.
 
 Instead, ask away on the [discussions](https://github.com/markqvist/Reticulum/discussions) or on the [Reticulum Matrix channel](https://unsigned.io/contact.html#reticulum:matrix.org) at `#reticulum:matrix.org`
 
-## Providing Feedback
+## Providing Feedback & Ideas
+
+Likewise, feedback, ideas and feature requests are a very welcome way to contribute, and should also be posted on the [discussions](https://github.com/markqvist/Reticulum/discussions), or on the [Reticulum Matrix channel](https://unsigned.io/contact.html#reticulum:matrix.org) at `#reticulum:matrix.org`.
 
-Likewise, feedback, ideas and feature requests are a very welcome way to contribute, and should also be posted on the [discussions](https://github.com/markqvist/Reticulum/discussions), or on the [Reticulum Matrix channel](https://unsigned.io/contact.html#reticulum:matrix.org) at `#reticulum:matrix.org`
+Please do not post feature requests or general ideas on the issue tracker, or in direct messages to the primary developers. You are much more likely to get a response and start a constructive discussion by posting your ideas in the public channels created for these purposes.
 
 ## Reporting Issues