feat: SQLTap connector instance shared with streams #3723

Job	Run time
Test on 3.7 (tests) / ubuntu-latest	1m 14s
Test on 3.8 (tests) / ubuntu-latest	1m 14s
Test on 3.9 (tests) / ubuntu-latest	1m 11s
Test on 3.10 (tests) / ubuntu-latest	1m 15s
Test on 3.11 (tests) / ubuntu-latest	1m 9s
Test on 3.7 (tests) / macos-latest	1m 58s
Test on 3.8 (tests) / macos-latest	2m 13s
Test on 3.9 (tests) / macos-latest	2m 6s
Test on 3.10 (tests) / macos-latest	1m 59s
Test on 3.11 (tests) / macos-latest	2m 5s
Test on 3.7 (tests) / windows-latest	2m 59s
Test on 3.8 (tests) / windows-latest	2m 28s
Test on 3.9 (tests) / windows-latest	3m 9s
Test on 3.10 (tests) / windows-latest	2m 31s
Test on 3.11 (tests) / windows-latest	2m 27s
Test on 3.10 (doctest) / ubuntu-latest	49s
Test on 3.8 (mypy) / ubuntu-latest	52s
External Tests	0s
Coverage	50s
	32m 29s

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