test: update tests for OpenSSL 3.0.14

Starting from OpenSSL 3.0.14, 3.1.6, 3.2.2, and 3.3.1, OpenSSL was fixed
to return an error reason string for bad/unknown application protocols.

Update tests to handle both the old `ECONNRESET` error on older versions
of OpenSSL and the new `ERR_SSL_TLSV1_ALERT_NO_APPLICATION_PROTOCOL` on
newer versions of OpenSSL.

Refs: openssl/openssl#24338
PR-URL: #53373
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>

test/parallel/test-tls-alpn-server-client.js

@@ -195,7 +195,8 @@ function TestALPNCallback() {
 
     // Callback picks 2nd preference => undefined => ALPN rejected:
     assert.strictEqual(results[1].server, undefined);
-    assert.strictEqual(results[1].client.error.code, 'ECONNRESET');
+    const allowedErrors = ['ECONNRESET', 'ERR_SSL_TLSV1_ALERT_NO_APPLICATION_PROTOCOL'];
+    assert.ok(allowedErrors.includes(results[1].client.error.code), `'${results[1].client.error.code}' was not one of ${allowedErrors}.`);
 
     TestBadALPNCallback();
   });
@@ -218,7 +219,8 @@ function TestBadALPNCallback() {
   runTest(clientsOptions, serverOptions, function(results) {
     // Callback returns 'http/5' => doesn't match client ALPN => error & reset
     assert.strictEqual(results[0].server, undefined);
-    assert.strictEqual(results[0].client.error.code, 'ECONNRESET');
+    const allowedErrors = ['ECONNRESET', 'ERR_SSL_TLSV1_ALERT_NO_APPLICATION_PROTOCOL'];
+    assert.ok(allowedErrors.includes(results[0].client.error.code), `'${results[0].client.error.code}' was not one of ${allowedErrors}.`);
 
     TestALPNOptionsCallback();
   });