perf(python): use rust to convert to/from python datetimes

[bschoenmaeckers]

fixes #16199

Waiting for pyo3 v0.23.4 to be released. PyO3/pyo3#4835

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Attention: Patch coverage is 89.36170% with 5 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 78.96%. Comparing base (8abd261) to head (45d66f0).
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[bschoenmaeckers]

Should this return the timezone info instead of None in the cases where there is one?