Fix graceful shutdown notify failure

[provenceee]

What type of PR is this?

Bug

What this PR does / why we need it?

When one instance of provider is going to be shutdown，send requests continuously to it. Sometimes we will get 500 response code. So this pr manages to make sure the notification to consumer is send correctly.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes？

Fixes #1589

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

No

Checklist

• Make sure there is a GitHub_issue related with this PR before you start working on it.
• Make sure you have squashed your change to one single commit.
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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 85.10638% with 7 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ermant/registry/service/impl/GraceServiceImpl.java	81.57%	2 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️

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unittests	43.84% <85.10%> (+0.05%)	181.00 <0.00> (-1.00)	⬆️

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
...n/java/io/sermant/registry/config/GraceConfig.java	58.24% <ø> (+0.34%)	28.00 <0.00> (-1.00)	⬆️
...try/config/RegistryConfigSubscribeServiceImpl.java	17.39% <ø> (+1.39%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...n/java/io/sermant/registry/utils/RefreshUtils.java	87.17% <100.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...o/sermant/registry/service/cache/AddressCache.java	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)
...ermant/registry/service/impl/GraceServiceImpl.java	79.66% <81.57%> (+12.99%)	0.00 <0.00> (ø)

... and 2 files with indirect coverage changes