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Hey,
have you seen the new Leonardo Dicaprio
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movie?
Man,
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that guy is such a good actor.
He's so lucky.
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He's so lucky.
He has that talent is rich.
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It doesn't even have to do any hard
work.
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Good afternoon everyone.
Today I'm going to talk about whether
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some people are naturally just good with
languages and other people are not good
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with languages.
Usually when people hear about how I
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speak several different languages and I
love studying languages,
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they often say to me,
wow,
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you're so lucky you can speak those
languages.
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Now.
That's kind of makes me laugh usually,
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but it's also kind of annoying because
I'm not lucky.
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I worked really hard to learn all of
those languages,
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but people don't really see that.
Sometimes they just see the final
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result,
which is that I can speak these
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languages.
They don't see all of the effort and the
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process that went into it.
They just see that final,
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uh,
the final result and they think,
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oh,
I couldn't do that.
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So they think that it's somehow,
it just a natural talent that I have.
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But actually I'm not talented with
languages.
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I just love studying languages and
that's why I can easily put in the time
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and I can kind of slug through all of
the grind to get good at a language.
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People who say I'm not good with
languages,
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they usually have no idea what goes into
the process.
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They don't realize that it takes
hundreds and hundreds of hours to get
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pretty good with the language and it
takes thousands of hours to get really
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good at a language.
Probably they hear about people getting
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good at a language in three months or in
six months and they think,
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wow,
that's really a short period of time.
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It sounds easy and they buy in to the
marketing and all that kind of thing.
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Um,
but they don't realize that within that
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short amount of time,
people who get good at a language or
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probably just completely focused and
dedicated and obsessed with that
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language.
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Like if you get good at a language in
six months and you're fluent,
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that means you busted your ass that
whole six months and that language
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became your life.
Uh,
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learning a language is like climbing a
mountain,
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right?
Um,
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it's a struggle and it's a challenge
every step of the way.
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But that's why it's fun.
So some people endure that grind and
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endured the challenge because they love
it or because they're really motivated
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by that goal of reaching the top.
And it's the same as people who climb
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real mountains.
Why did they climb it?
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Not because it's easy,
but the climate because they love the
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challenge or they really enjoy getting
to the top of the mountain,
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right?
So it's not that it's easy,
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it's that some people just love the
challenge and that's why they can stick
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it out and they can grind through it.
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And that's why they can put in the time
and the effort to get really good at it.
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So some people are not good at languages
because they have bad habits,
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bad study habits,
or just bad habits of hard work in
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general,
or they have bad strategies for
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learning.
Both of those are things you can change.
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So people can get good with languages
even if they're not right.
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Now,
let me tell you just a couple of
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examples.
Like,
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uh,
one guy who I used to work with at my
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previous job,
he told me,
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uh,
well,
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I,
I can speak Japanese quite well and he
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can't speak Japanese very well.
And he was saying to me,
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Oh,
I wish I could speak at like you.
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And I said,
well,
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why don't you do it then?
And he said,
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well,
I've tried,
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but I'm not good with languages,
which made my eyebrows raise.
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Like,
really?
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How much do you study?
And he said,
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well,
I study,
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you know,
when I have time.
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And that was the first red flag.
It was just when I have time,
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that's an excuse to not commit to a
study schedule.
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So I said,
well,
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how often?
He said,
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well,
once or twice a week sometimes.
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Uh,
and I said,
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okay,
when you study on those days,
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how much do you study?
And he says,
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well,
I try to do a page or two and my
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textbook,
I said,
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what do you mean try?
Do you do a page or two or we're not?
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And he said,
well,
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sometimes.
And so all these things,
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like you sometimes do a page or two,
uh,
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you tried to do a page or two,
what does that mean?
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You either do it or you don't.
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There is no try.
So if you're going to do three pages
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today,
do three pages,
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don't do a page and then go on,
I'm tired,
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I'm going to go watch TV.
No,
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screw that you do your three pages.
That's the kind of commitment.
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That's the kind of habit that you need
to get good at a language.
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It's that ability to just set a goal and
fight through it because you enjoy it
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and because you want to reach that,
that goal at the end,
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and that's part of the process is just
committing to it.
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So some people can force themselves to
do that and those are the people who are
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supposedly good with languages for the
most part.
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Another example is someone who has just
a kind of habit or a learning style or a
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personality trait that kind of blocks
them from getting good at the language.
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I know another guy who tried to learn
Japanese,
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kind of tried to learn Japanese,
but he never made any progress with it.
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Um,
and I would always ask them,
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how's it going?
He said,
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oh,
it's not so easy.
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I'm not good with languages like you.
And I would dig in a little bit.
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And what it is is this guy just loves to
talk your ear off.
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He's one of these people who just talks,
talks,
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talks,
talks,
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talks all the time really fast.
And he can't slow himself down.
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And he absolutely hates listening to
other people.
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Like stopping his own voice to listen to
other people is,
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it causes him like psychological terror
almost.
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He just hates it.
Um,
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so he's not someone who can slow himself
down enough to really go slowly when
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learning a language.
He has to just say all his ideas right
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away or he feels freaked out.
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So when you're learning a language,
of course you need to sometimes go
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slowly.
You need to,
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you know,
uh,
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process the concepts,
process the patterns and piece together
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your sentences.
You need to just,
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um,
you need to slow down to make your
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speech more accurate.
And if you are not used to doing that,
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if you have a personality trait that
inhibits you from slowing down,
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and that means you need to change that
strategy,
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you need to work on that part of your,
of your personality in order to help you
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learn better,
right?
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So it's not that that guy is not good
with languages is that he,
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he has this,
uh,
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this pattern of behavior that stops him
from,
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from pushing forward in his learning,
right?
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So if he can work on that,
then he can get better with learning
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languages.
So if you have trouble learning
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languages,
it could be one of those two things.
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It could be that you don't have the
study habits so you don't have the
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habits of setting goals and just
fighting through all of the bullshit
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that you have to go through to reach
your goal.
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Or it could be that you have some kind
of,
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some kind of,
um,
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uh,
trait or some kind of pattern that's
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inhibiting your learning and you can
figure out what that is.
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And try to work around that or try to
change it so you can learn more
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efficiently and not have to keep
stopping.
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So that's my basic message.
If you think you're not good with
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languages,
I basically disagree with you and I
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think you could be good with languages
if you just change something around and
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change your patterns,
change your habits.
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Nobody is inherently good with
languages.
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Nobody's inherently bad with them.
Have a good day.